Kindergarten/1st grade Problem solving lesson

Dear Families,

Here is another Social/Emotional learning opportunity idea for your children. Please don't hesitate to reach out with any questions!

Lesson objective: To have students identify the size of the problem and come up with strategies on how to solve it.  

Lesson: 

*Students will choose one problem to problem solve and they will identify what the size of the problem is (small, medium, big): 

1. Someone stepped in front of you in line.
2. You accidentally ripped a page in a library book.
3. You want to play with someone but they said no.

*Students will brainstorm five solutions to the problem they chose.  

*For each solution they will ask the following questions: How do I feel? What is the problem? What can I do?

*Students will then choose a solution based on the answers to the above questions. 

Parent tip: When mediating disputes between children, always first ask “What is the problem?” even if it seems clear. After re-phrasing the problem in a neutral manner have everyone suggest solutions.

Below is the family letter I recently sent out to reference to for this lesson.

The next unit the students and I will be discussing is the “Size of the Problem''.  This is a term coined by the Social Thinking curriculum, socialthinking.com, and it emphasizes that all problems are not created equal. Children face commonplace problems such as a paper cut or problems as complicated as having to cope with a family tragedy. When working with kids we talk about problems in three sizes: small problems, medium problems, and big problems. Regardless of scale, the hidden rule in problem solving with preschool and elementary school age children is that we are expected to react to problems in a manner that matches (or is smaller than) the size of the problem. This is where social problem solving can get tricky. A problem that is perceived by one person as being small could cause a big reaction. Not only does this mismatch create more anxiety in the individual, it can also limit the effectiveness of solving the current problem while at the same time creating a new problem.

Figuring out the size of the problem is the first step in being able to match our emotional reaction accordingly. Small Problems are defined as those that can be pretty easily solved on our own, despite us possibly feeling a little sad, annoyed, or worried. For instance: having to sharpen a pencil point that broke, doing homework even when we don’t want to, or not getting called on by the teacher.

Medium problems require someone’s help, often an adult, to solve. That said, it is expected that kids help solve medium problems. Some examples include figuring out a math problem, a friend not wanting to play with them at recess, or forgetting their lunch at home. Medium problems often make us feel some degree of mad, sad, confused, frustrated, or worried.

A big problem makes us feel really scared, hurt, worried, or upset. Big problems are solved by an adult. For instance: being bullied, getting very sick or injured, or dealing with unfortunate events outside of our direct control. Even adults usually need help solving big problems!

Helping our students learn to recognize the size of their problem and examining the related size of their emotional reaction is an important part of teaching social problem solving.