2nd/3rd grade Problem solving lesson

Dear Families,
Here is another social/emotional lesson plan idea that you can use with your children during this time.  Please let me know if you have any questions!

Lesson objective: To have students identify the size of the problem and come up with strategies on how to solve it.  

Lesson: 

*Students will choose one problem to problem solve and they will identify what the size of the problem is (small, medium, big): 

1. You accidentally broke a mug and nobody saw it happen.
2. You argued with a friend and now you want to make up with them. 

*Students will identify how they are feeling. Students will come up with a plan on how to proceed in solving this problem. 

*Students will name the problem and then they will identify five solutions that could be used.

*For every solution they will ask the following questions: Is it safe? How might people feel about it? Is it fair? Will it work?

*Students will choose one solution to use based on the answers to the problem solving questions.  

Parent tip: Help children label their feelings as they arise and help them understand why they might be feeling a particular emotion.  Listening and watching for feelings and reflecting what you notice back to your child is one way to do this. 

Below is the family letter I recently sent out to reference to for this lesson.

The next unit the students and I will be discussing is the “Size of the Problem''.  This is a term coined by the Social Thinking curriculum, socialthinking.com, and it emphasizes that all problems are not created equal. Children face commonplace problems such as a paper cut or problems as complicated as having to cope with a family tragedy. When working with kids we talk about problems in three sizes: small problems, medium problems, and big problems. Regardless of scale, the hidden rule in problem solving with preschool and elementary school age children is that we are expected to react to problems in a manner that matches (or is smaller than) the size of the problem. This is where social problem solving can get tricky. A problem that is perceived by one person as being small could cause a big reaction. Not only does this mismatch create more anxiety in the individual, it can also limit the effectiveness of solving the current problem while at the same time creating a new problem.

Figuring out the size of the problem is the first step in being able to match our emotional reaction accordingly. Small Problems are defined as those that can be pretty easily solved on our own, despite us possibly feeling a little sad, annoyed, or worried. For instance: having to sharpen a pencil point that broke, doing homework even when we don’t want to, or not getting called on by the teacher.

Medium problems require someone’s help, often an adult, to solve. That said, it is expected that kids help solve medium problems. Some examples include figuring out a math problem, a friend not wanting to play with them at recess, or forgetting their lunch at home. Medium problems often make us feel some degree of mad, sad, confused, frustrated, or worried.

A big problem makes us feel really scared, hurt, worried, or upset. Big problems are solved by an adult. For instance: being bullied, getting very sick or injured, or dealing with unfortunate events outside of our direct control. Even adults usually need help solving big problems!

Helping our students learn to recognize the size of their problem and examining the related size of their emotional reaction is an important part of teaching social problem solving.