Spring - a time of transition

Spring and the impending end of the school year bring about a range of emotions for children.  The upcoming transitions for students and their families include; saying good-bye to teachers, the structure of a school day, and for some even a change in their school building.  The big question all parents ask is; how can we help support our children in a positive way to have a successful transition from one school year to the next?  The following are some thoughts on how to make that happen.

*Be supportive, optimistic and encouraging when your child finds out who their teacher and classmates are for the following school year. 

*Let your child know it is normal to feel apprehensive about the upcoming change. 

*Expect the transition to be successful.  But remember adjustments take time and can be overwhelming.  Your attitude can help your child – show you are confident in their ability to adjust well. 

*Invite your child to express their emotions and be respectful of their feelings – something that sounds minor to you could be major to your child.  Remember to use open-ended questions and listen carefully.

*Help your child explore ways to cope with concerns by being available for further discussion, problem-solving together and role-playing.  Be careful not to give advice unless your child asks for it – often they just need to be listened to. 

*Encourage your child to try new things and participate in after school activities or sports that interest them. 

*Continue to help support your child’s organizational skills and help them be responsible for bringing the items necessary for their day (homework, snack, notes) back and forth to school.  This helps your child feel prepared for their day and it reduces stress. 

*Attend the school transition/informational nights that are offered so that you are invested in the transition process. 

*Keep the days leading up to the transition as positive and stress free as possible.  Make sure you have everything you need ready ahead of time. 

*Lastly, encourage your child to have fun and reassure them that they are very capable of success and show them how much you believe in them.